5 Easy but Powerful Habits That Help Eased My Depression Symptoms
- Candice Alston

- Mar 16
- 5 min read
Updated: Apr 28
Hey Friend!
It’s Sunday, which means it’s my blogging and vibes day! Meet Me Halfway by the Black Eyed Peas is booming through your girl’s headphones right now and the writing vibes are starting to flow. I hope you’ve been well since my last post.
In my last post, “6 Shifts That Change Your Depression Journey,” we talked a lot about mindset shifts that help prepare you for a successful mental health journey. Mindfulness is one of the most important skills you can develop when it comes to healing depression, anxiety, and trauma. After all, we are retraining our brains so they are no longer constantly plagued with negative thoughts. That means we have to become more aware of our triggers, what helps us cope, how our brains currently think, and the ways those thought patterns might create obstacles in our healing journey.
In today’s post, I’ll be focusing on some tried-and-true physical habits that helped ease my depression symptoms.
Depression is a nasty cycle, and the physical and mental fatigue alone can be enough to keep you stuck in the grey. In my own experience, I was able to maintain a job, but outside of that I didn’t have the mental capacity to handle much of anything. Bills went unpaid. Isolation became my escape from embarrassment and shame. Dinner was takeout most nights.
Inevitably, this only worsened my depression because those pesky intrusive thoughts kept telling me I wasn’t doing enough—that I was a failure, that I was a horrible mom because I couldn’t just get my life together.
Another essential part of healing depression and trauma is giving yourself grace. Babes, none of this is intentional. I’m sure we would all choose a life of good vibes and happy thoughts all the time if we could. But guess what? We’re about to get our happiness now.
Every new journey has to start somewhere, and these five physical habits helped ease my depression symptoms and opened the door for my healing.
Stretching
To all my yoga girlies—I love that for you. It just wasn’t my thing.
But the facts remain: movement is so good for combating depression, and I found that stretching was my thing.
Stretching is simple, quick, and something you can easily make part of your daily routine. Look, I barely had energy, so all that “take a walk” or “exercise for 30 minutes” advice was not going to work for me. Hell, I didn’t even have enough energy to walk to the mailbox. I’m pretty sure my mail lady had a few choice words about me from time to time.
Another bonus? You can stretch almost anywhere, and it requires no equipment.
I like to stretch first thing in the morning. If you have anxiety like I do, you might also find stretching helpful when you feel your anxiety starting to rise. Check out the pictures below for some of my favorite stretches.
Making Your Bed in the Morning

There’s just something about a freshly made bed that calms the mind.
This simple task can set the tone for the entire morning. It signals to your brain: sleep time is over—let’s start the day.
It also made it less tempting for me to crawl back under the covers to escape the day. Not only did I not want to mess up my freshly made bed, but seeing it neatly made reminded me that it wasn’t time to hide away again.
Micro To-Do Lists
In the depths of depression, even the smallest tasks can feel overwhelming or impossible. When you add the pressure of expectations—and the guilt of not being able to meet them—it can spiral into a whirlwind of negative thoughts and feelings of failure.
Here’s the trick: assign yourself one task per day.
Let’s lower the expectations and pressure we place on ourselves for a little while.
Of course we want to feel motivated and successful again—out here doing our big one. And you will get there, friend. But right now, it’s about being gentle with yourself and allowing your body and mind the time they need to recover.
Think of it like recovering from surgery. If a doctor told you to rest for a few weeks, you wouldn’t try to run a marathon the next day, right? You’d allow your body the time it needs to heal.
Depression and trauma recovery deserve that same grace.
Start with one task per day. When you feel ready, add a second.
My very first task was simply getting the mail from the mailbox. And I did it. Then I went right back to bed—but hey, I accomplished my task for the day. As the days passed, I slowly started to feel stronger.
Drinking Ice-Cold Water
The shock and coolness of ice-cold water helped calm my nervous system and ease my anxiety.
I also realized I had been walking around dehydrated all the time because I hated drinking water. And let’s be real—being dehydrated definitely wasn’t helping me fight depression.
Sometimes the smallest physical habits can make a surprisingly big difference.
Removing Apps That Trigger Doom Scrolling
TikTok had to go.
I didn’t delete my social media accounts completely, but I did remove the apps from my phone. We have to be mindful of the things we constantly expose our minds to.
If you find yourself comparing your life to someone else’s perfectly curated 30-second video, it might be time to take a break. If you find yourself glued to your screen for hours, losing chunks of your day, it might be time to step back.
Instead, try setting a designated timeframe for social media.
For me, I would download the app on Friday evening and remove it again on Sunday night before my week started. That way I could still enjoy it—but it didn’t have control over my time or my mental space.
The real breakthroughs in healing usually don’t come from one huge life-changing moment. They come from doing one small, simple thing at a time. Being intentional about the little things—moving your body, caring for your space, and putting boundaries on that screen time—can do more for your healing than you realize. Just remember, you are not broken and you are definitely not failing. You’re in your healing and recovery era, and that takes courage. Keep taking those small steps forward, friend. Your peace and happiness are already on their way.
Until my next post — take care of you.
Here’s one small healthy habit I learned in treatment: Every day, choose one small act of self-care. It doesn’t have to be big. Just something that brings you a moment of peace, a smile, or a breath of calm.
Today, I’ll be taking a melatonin and calming shower in hopes to get to bed early. Working night shift sometimes my sleep schedule gets thrown off which has been the case lately. So hopefully I'll get some much needed rest.
What’s your one small thing today? Let me know in the comments!
Sincerely,
Your Mental Health Girly ... Candice
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